<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Succede davvero]]></title><description><![CDATA[Riflessioni di vita con ironia mistica]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 10:06:44 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.succededavvero.com/en/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[INDICE IT/EN]]></title><description><![CDATA[La strega    MI PRESENTO:  Capitolo 1 ...                                    L'inizio di tutto                       Beginning of everything ....CAPITOLO 1 ...                            Come un extra terrestre                Like an extraterrestrial CAPITOLO 1                                           La sonnambula non è una bambola/The sleepwalker is not a doll ... capitolo 1.                                       Anni settanta / Seventies                                              ...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/indice-capitoli-libro</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab102a3f963ab43de0ff58a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 13:36:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_90faef1039634e269735aac98ee1f1cc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[...Chapter I... (My invisible 'friend')     From Leda's diary (1986)]]></title><description><![CDATA[A few years ago, while walking back from school with my friend Milena, I saw a guy on a motorcycle speeding by.

For no apparent reason, driven by a sudden flash of inspiration, I pointed at him and told her: "See that guy? He always ignores us, but one day he’s going to be my husband."

Milena widened her big blue eyes, calling me a visionary: "What are you talking about?" And I, laughing halfway: "Yeah, I’ll marry him... I mean, I could, right?!"]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/chapter-i-my-invisible-friend-from-leda-s-diary-1986</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6af19797700650487cc78dc1</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 10:06:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_60fc2997154f4814b5a73172a53489b9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[...Capitolo I... (Il mio "amico" invisibile)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Qualche anno fa, mentre tornavo da scuola con la mia amica Milena, ho visto sfrecciare via un ragazzo in moto.

Senza un motivo apparente, spinta da un'ispirazione improvvisa, l'ho indicato e le ho detto:«Vedi quel ragazzo? Ci ignora sempre, ma un giorno diventerà mio marito.»

Milena ha sgranato i suoi occhioni azzurri, dandomi della visionaria: «Ma che dici?» E io, ridendo a metà: «Sì, lo sposerò... voglio dire, potrei, no?!»]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/capitolo-i-il-mio-amico-invisibile</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aea0a59f154f4eeb33dd19c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 09:37:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_60fc2997154f4814b5a73172a53489b9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ogni medaglia ha il suo rovescio (Milano metafora dell'illusione italiana)]]></title><description><![CDATA[La Bolla dell'"Aver Successo a Tutti i Costi": Se negli anni Ottanta l'imperativo era l'apparenza, oggi la pressione sociale è raddoppiata dal digitale. A Milano devi performare, devi "fatturare" (anche in termini di stile di vita e felicità ostentata sui social), col rischio costante del burnout emotivo.


]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/ogni-medaglia-ha-il-suo-rovescio-milano-metafora-dell-illusione-italiana</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aecaa616d4c814341b31e39</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2026 16:38:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_2b7c0395135e4ad7968714ce62523f7d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["Illusion or reality"]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Housing Emergency: Buying or even just renting an apartment in Milan has become a luxury for a select few. Crazy prices are pushing not only students and young workers out into the hinterland, but also families and the traditional middle class.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/illusion-or-reality</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aecaf576d4c814341b32897</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2026 16:36:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_4a016c8169f64521b3d4f98b71acc74a/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Viaggio in Italia ( gli anni '80 a Milano) Dal diario di Leda - Riflessioni su un epoca.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Negli ultimi anni, Milano ha subito una metamorfosi visiva e culturale senza precedenti. Da capitale industriale e della moda, si è trasformata in una moderna città-stato globale.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/viaggio-in-italia-gli-anni-80-a-milano</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae9b935fb3ecc27b697d865</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:51:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_9b5d5590e19b451e82628d61d4d56fcc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["Journey to 1980s Italy (Milan)"]]></title><description><![CDATA["Excerpt from Leda's diary (reflections on an era)" ️ Milan Today: From Padded Shoulders to Glass Skyscrapers (But at What Cost?) "Piazza Gae Aulenti, endless construction sites, vertical forests, and... a city running fast, perhaps too fast." Remember the Milan of the 1980s? The one of the Milano da bere, designer jackets, and unchecked ambition? Forget it (or rather, keep the energy in mind). Today's Milan has had a makeover, changed its passport, and become Italy's most international,...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/journey-to-1980s-italy-milan</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae9bb84ad017b70020e8e73</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:49:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_9b5d5590e19b451e82628d61d4d56fcc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Capitolo VI...]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is something deeply magnetic about the air in September. The days grow shorter, the avenues turn shades of red and orange, and the brain—implacable—reminds us that vacations are officially a memory. ]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/capitolo-vi-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae8b5e0314e0d2e63a9ac88</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 16:15:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_6acc76bdb7974b3fa507d41c01e69718~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[...Capitolo VI... Tommaso]]></title><description><![CDATA[C'è qualcosa di profondamente magnetico nell'aria di settembre. Le giornate si accorciano, i viali si tingono di rosso e arancione, e il cervello — implacabile — ci ricorda che le vacanze sono ufficialmente un ricordo. Tra la pioggia leggera sui tetti, l'odore della terra bagnata e il fumo sottile che torna a salire dai camini, per me è sempre stato il momento perfetto per cedere alla malinconia. Del resto, malinconica ci sono nata.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/capitolo-vi-tommaso</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae1c1bb18163c9dd53330b6</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 16:06:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_c9b7ecf3d75049ed82f0164749b60324/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["The Two Faces of Milan (and of Italy)"]]></title><description><![CDATA[The two sides of the city: While people toasted to revenue in lofts and exclusive restaurants, the silent tragedy of heroin was unfolding in the suburbs—a drama that shattered an entire generation left on the margins of the boom.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/the-two-faces-of-milan-and-of-italy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae77efcfd27b04513bffeb9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2026 18:11:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_c5c039ccf9de44c89440d6e7610fe2bd~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[La doppia faccia di Milano(e dell'Italia)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Il lascito: Quella Milano ci ha insegnato a pensare in grande, a credere nel design e nella proiezione globale. Ma ci ha lasciato anche un grande punto interrogativo: quanto costa, in termini umani e sociali, quando l'avere divora l'essere?]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/la-doppia-faccia-di-milano-e-dell-italia</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae77b05ad017b700209f487</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2026 17:54:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_c5c039ccf9de44c89440d6e7610fe2bd~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Everything sooner or later ends without ever truly ending.   ]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the end I learned to wait for it all to be fulfilled. It became a silent routine, a ritual of waiting. At night I always found myself putting off the moment to go to sleep, unable to decide. It was just like when I was little and feared the monsters hidden under the bed: only now they lived on top, walking all over me, and I, shrunk by terror, would convince myself to lie down only when my body gave way, exhausted by exhaustion. But resting, deep down, was impossible. Mind and soul refused...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/everything-sooner-or-later-ends-without-ever-truly-ending</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae70bc22cc46e78f724059d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2026 09:54:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_00b06624dac44c91a24b484c6141b3a7/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Prima o poi tutto finisce;  senza finire mai davvero ...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Alla fine imparai ad aspettare che tutto si compisse. Diventò una routine silenziosa, un rituale di attesa. La notte mi trovavo sempre a rimandare il momento di andare a dormire, incapace di decidermi. Era esattamente come quando ero piccola e temevo i mostri nascosti sotto il letto: soltanto che adesso abitavano sopra, mi camminavano addosso, e io, rimpicciolita dal terrore, mi convincevo a coricarmi soltanto quando il corpo cedeva, sfinito dalla stanchezza. Ma riposare, in fondo, era...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/prima-o-poi-tutto-finisce-senza-finire-mai-davvero</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae5f12ef1230261f4f18951</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2026 09:46:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_00b06624dac44c91a24b484c6141b3a7/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[L'incubo continua ....]]></title><description><![CDATA[Avevo vent'anni e credevo di avere la mia vita sotto controllo. Niente era sottocontrollo, niente dipendeva veramente da me se non le scelte su come affrontare ciò che sarebbe successo.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/l-incubo-continua</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae372baa7d5f6fda3443408</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 16:25:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_d3d9b2ecda8545c3832bbaebd6f60ba1/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ The nightmare continues ...]]></title><description><![CDATA[ Nothing was under control, nothing truly depended on me except the choices on how to face what would happen.   ]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/the-nightmare-continues</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae36ff40f4ce9ea490c0b6a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 16:19:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/7559b6_d3d9b2ecda8545c3832bbaebd6f60ba1/480p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[  Viaggio nella Milano anni ottantaMilano Oggi: Dalle spalline imbottite ai grattacieli di cristallo (ma a quale prezzo?)]]></title><description><![CDATA[La Milano di oggi si è rifatta il look, ha cambiato passaporto ed è diventata la città più internazionale, speculativa e discussa d'Italia. ]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/viaggio-nella-milano-anni-ottanta</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae3488971a5938361b546ce</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 13:30:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_c6506c3d847e48f6bfc2b71d119aa107~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["The mood and spirit of 1980s Italy. A nostalgic journey down memory lane." ]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Great Creative Wave: Armani and Versace turn the streets into runways. Commercial television and publishing dictate the rhythms and desires of an entire country. Milan doesn't follow fashion trends: it creates them. ]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/the-mood-and-spirit-of-1980s-italy-a-nostalgic-journey-down-memory-lane</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae3214e1caebf1a60329da9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 10:46:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_c6506c3d847e48f6bfc2b71d119aa107~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[...CAPITOLO VI... Il magnete / The magnet]]></title><description><![CDATA["CHE STAI FACENDO?" Translate: ✨ La legge del magnete e quelle telefonate che cambiano tutto ✨ Ci sono legami che non seguono le regole della logica, ma quelle della fisica. Relazioni dove la vicinanza genera scintille e la lontananza toglie il respiro. Oggi condivido con voi una pagina intima di quella stagione della vita in cui l'amore non era un sentimento tranquillo, ma una vera e propria collisione energetica:  La telefonata al buioAl rientro in Italia, non feci in tempo a posare le...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/capitolo-vi-il-magnete</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ada37668a5c6790739abf4e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2026 09:12:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_b9c8c86635314788b65be1477b1baf1e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Diary: October 27, 2026 (real life is something else)]]></title><description><![CDATA[ An Alien, Me? When I decided to create this interactive journal, I did it for a simple reason: all my life, I've fought my demons alone. We all carry a certain baggage of unresolved knots to decode and dissolve. And by now, no one can make me second-guess my vision of life. It was so spontaneous when I came into this world that I still can't fathom how I managed to get lost in the meanders of such a wondrous yet fierce earthly existence. And yet, I was never truly alone spiritually. Every...]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/en/post/diary-october-27-2026-real-life-is-something-else</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae0de4fa2665f6da668ba80</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 17:29:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_086dcf64f1684cc1952854d3800e0c9a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_976,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Diario: 27 ottobre 2026 (La vita vera è un altra cosa)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oggi voglio fare un esercizio: rimettere in fila gli eventi della mia vita e dare loro un senso logico. Dentro di me è già tutto cristallino, ma metterlo nero su bianco, rendere ogni passaggio significativo, è un'altra storia. Perché niente è casuale. Ogni piccola coincidenza è carica di significato.

Da piccola sentivo le voci e ne avevo paura. Adesso, mi consolano.]]></description><link>https://www.succededavvero.com/post/diario-27-ottobre-2026-la-vita-vera-%C3%A8-un-altra-cosa</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ae0cbbba4c466008e6007f9</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 17:15:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7559b6_086dcf64f1684cc1952854d3800e0c9a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_976,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>inka070823</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>